familyvalues: Owen at the park, December 20, 2011 - I made this from my own photo. (Owenninemonths)
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I have made a list of questions to respond to, and will continue adding them as people ask them where ever -- here, facebook, g+, livejournal, or out and about in the park.

I'm going to present the questions, some slightly edited, in bold, without attribution, then answer below them, one at a time, over time, trying for at least one a week, hoping for one a day.

If I were to sit down and observe Owen for the first time, what would I see?


I think people who don't know him well and first see him, if he's at all awake, notice that he's headstrong and super-active. You can use words like brave, and fearless, and bold, and confident, and spirited, or whatever, but he's basically headstrong and hyper. ;)

That's a first impression thing, and it depends. Sometimes you might see him and think he's older because he (for example) can sit down with a book for 20 minutes and "read" it out loud with intonations, sort of telling himself a story, or can play with almost anything for a long time. He usually talks to himself while he does. But he's so active so much of the time, and I think a lot of people notice that first. I am starting to get sympathy comments and glances from other parents.

Another thing people notice, if he's somehow restrained or oddly calm -- if he's being held, or in his stroller or a high chair -- is that he adores interaction with other people and will seek it out and show off for it. He'll meet someone's eyes and just beam, or they'll laugh at something that's not him, and he'll laugh, then maybe a little louder, to get their attention, then it's all "how cute, I laughed and the baby's laughing!" and he's got his interaction.

We have inside-joke language to describe how he charms people, and he does. He charms them, he makes them smile and squee and come over and talk to him. I've heard people in other aisles at the supermarket: "Honey, did you see that baby? He's so cute. He was smiling at me!"

He's either going to save the world with his natural charm, or bring about its end. We hope he uses his powers for good.

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Date: 2012-06-05 07:14 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] rosefox
I'm sure you get "he looks like Casey!" all the time, but wow, in that photo he looks SO much like Audrey! I've not seen the resemblance that clearly before. Gorgeous kid.

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Date: 2012-06-06 07:42 pm (UTC)
From: [personal profile] tamouse

This seems like such a strange question to get from someone. I'd expect something like "What's Owen like?" and other such things. This seems so specific. Also, hmm, something about it is like asking you to pre-set first impressions.

Nothing you've written here hasn't been written by you before, at least none of it seems like "Oh, I didn't know that" based on the year of posts and photos of Owen so far.

On the other hand -- encapsulating this may be good for people just starting.

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