familyvalues

As I recall, you were a little concerned about how to correct assumptions about your family structure before Owen was born -- has that actually come up much? Are you pretty much happy to let people assume whatever they're assuming as long as they haven't got anything actively wrong (e.g. if you're out with the baby and one other parent, as long as both adults present are recognized as parents you don't feel the need to mention the other one) or do you prefer to clarify early even when it's a bit of a detour from the conversation at hand?