Well, I'm not there but I'm guessing there's bugging and then there's "bugging".

I routinely tease my new-parent friends by complaining that they're not posting a sufficient number of photos and details to meet my need for the internet to be full of Woodgie ... but I don't do this to people who don't know me well enough to realise that I AM teasing/letting them know I'm sharing their squee, not ACTUALLY telling them to carve out the time to write a heavily illustrated novel.